Posts Tagged ‘love’

Possibly the Weirdest Thing to Inherit Ever

September 11, 2010

For how traditional my family is, we’re pretty strange.  And by traditional, I mean we have a lot of traditions.  Which are weird.  For example, we have three Christmas celebrations.  My father is of Austrian, so we celebrate St. Nicholas Day.  In Austria when my great-great-grandparents, Christmas has more emphasis on the part of the word that says MASS, so people wouldn’t open presents on the actual day because they’d be in church all day.  Therefore, my family would do the whole shoe thing every year, and we still do.  The other extra celebration was based on my mother’s Scandinavian heritage.  Santa Lucia day is when the eldest daughter in the family feeds the rest of the family breakfast in bed.  As a youngest child, I didn’t really have any qualms with this.  Another thing we do around Christmas time that’s kind of morbid is we visit the family plot in Oakland to see the graves of my grandfather and brother.  On the way, we stop by Fenton’s, which if doesn’t sound familiar, watch Up.  Now.

That’s only a set of seasonal traditions.  We also have the need for green Jell-O at all “high holy days” and the Chicken Dance at weddings and, the ultimate, LEMON BASEBALL.  I think this one might of started when my mother got her MBA and we had a wicked back-log of lemons from the tree, so we took them down to the local open field and knocked the living tar out of them with baseball bats.  The best part, besides creating a citrus explosion, is everyone who participates comes home smelling lemony fresh.  We do this mostly at large family gatherings, like my sister’s wedding or my brother’s memorial service.  I think of it as a way to make a situation that could be really depressing into a moment of exhilaration and celebration.  We are not celebrating the fact that someone’s dead, but that they lived and affected our lives. At that point, I take a break in mourning and laugh and be joyful that I knew them and that I have to opportunity to continue their legacy.  Believe me, in relation to my brother, my hypothetical kids are going to know who Uncle Willy was.

Which brings me to this weekend.  I just lost my grandmother, and this weekend is the funeral.  My entire family is in town and going through old photos and sorting through my grandmother’s mementos.  If something jumps out to us, it’s ours.  It’s not sacrilegious.  We don’t chose these things because we think it’s worth something, but because it means something to us.  Or because, in my case, I want to keep a certain odd tradition going.

I think my parents were eco-friendly before it was cool.  My mother’s and father’s wedding rings are totally on the current trend of recycled gold in jewelery.  My mother’s ring is made of my both my grandfathers’ dental gold (their fillings), my dad’s old wedding ring and one he found in the Russian River.  Dad’s was just dental gold.  The diamond in Mom’s engagement ring was from my grandmother’s original wedding set.  There was very little eco-impact due to my parents’ wedding rings, and I think it’s a pretty cool idea.  Something close to each of their fathers is in their rings, namely from inside their mouths.  They also brought in objects from places that were important to them, and took an old bond and made it new.

Anyway, we were going through Grandma’s old safe that has her gold bouillon and silver bars, which I lusted over in the hopes that they could pay for part of my Master’s, if that should come up.  The girls were all picking out jewelery, and I found some nice rings and a pocket watch, and then we found it.  It was my grandfather’s bridge and dental fillings and some of his teeth with more fillings.  Well, guess who’s one of the only unmarried girls in the family?  Yeah, it’s me so I got my grandfather’s teeth.  I inherited a dental bridge and I had to hold it in my hand for a minute and I have never been more squicked in my life.  And this is coming from a girl who religiously wears her retainer every night, just for that continually nerdy feeling I get from having metal in my mouth.  Oh, and I want perfect teeth, but that’s just a happy side effect.

I’m glad to keep the tradition going, even if I had to hold my grandfather’s teeth.  Honestly, though, he passed away when I was three years old, so I didn’t get to know him too well.  Even if I look a lot like him and have his smile and apparently act a bit like him, I don’t feel close to him.  I guess if I had something of his close to me at all times, I’d feel like I had a part of him with me, even if it’s his teeth.  Ew.


That was  fairly discombobulated post, but was fun to right.  Off I go now to eat donuts!  HOTCHAHA!


Cuddle Bunny (A love letter)

February 13, 2010

My dear, dear Sir,

I’ve been admiring your work for a while now, and I’ve just gotten up the courage to tell you how I feel.  The way you write, the way you speak, everything you do it enchanting to me.  I couldn’t imagine anyone more perfect, or anyone who’s done more for our nation.  You’re the mot amazing man I’ve ever read about, and you’ve written some of the most amazing things I’ve ever read. I don’t know where we’d be without you, but I’m guessing it would probably look something like Canada.  For saving us from that terrible fate, I love you Mr. President James Madison.

You’re known as the Father of the Constitution, and baby, if your child isn’t brilliant.  You wrote something that’s malleable, but still has some very specific laws, and you made it able to be amended as time went on, which showed me you were flexible and realistic, but at the same time romantic.  Your Federalist papers were eloquent, and occasionally witty.  James, you have a style all your own, and I can’t help but feel my heart flutter every time I read about the separation of powers in the federal government. Without you as Secretary of State, there would never have been the Louisiana Purchase, which doubled the size of the nation and brought about a beginning to Manifest Destiny.  Your passion for the nation brings about my passion for you.  While your Presidency was riddled with problems like the Embargo Act of 1807, which led to the War of 1812, and the burning down of the White House, the end of the war brought along a peace that dissolved, for a short time, bipartisanship.  You are charismatic, caring and a generally wonderful man.  If only you felt the same way about me as I feel about you.  You did support high tariffs and a large military, but nobody’s perfect, and I believe the best love is based on acceptance.

I know our love is not meant to be.  You have your magnificent First Lady, Dolley Madison, and I’d never dream of getting between the two of you.   Alas, I have no chance of being your true love, but I will still pine from afar.  Plus, I’m not a necrophiliac and you’ve been dead and buried for over 170 years.  Not even Lincoln, with his tall good looks, could ever replace you in my heart.  Just so you know, even though you’re all corpsified and gross, I still love you, Jame.  Even though you were the 4th President, you’ll always be number 1 in my heart.

Love always,



Okay, while I am a big fan of President Madison, this is a joke.  Because, you know, Presidents Day is the day after Valentines Day, so I decided to celebrate the one I like more…Presidents Day.  So I hope you enjoyed reading that as much as I enjoyed writing it.  One thing I’m upset about is that I don’t get the day off for President’s Day.  I have to go to school.  And LEARN.  And turn in HOMEWORK.  Anyway, that’s my update for today.   And now for the random picture.  I decided to include some artwork I made this week.  They’re each Valentines for some of my friends, so enjoy!

Have a great week!